That Make You Scream "Singlehood is Good!"
Although it's never fun being dumped,
or even mutually agreeing to end a relationship, there is still something
to say about being single...it's very freeing!
Of course, it's all in the way you view
singlehood. One of the worst things about being single is that you dont
know that it won't last forever. However, if you knew for a fact that by
the end of the year, or by six-months down the road, you will be in a
relationship, would you be so distressed about being single? Probably not...
you'd probably just relax and enjoy your singlehood. So go ahead and decide
to give yourself and 'end-date'. tell yourself that you shouldn't worry or
fret, because by _________ you will be in a very loving and fulfilling
relationship with a super person.
Taking the time to enjoy your freedom
and finding yourself will only make for a better and lasting relationship
in the future. You want to be in a place where you are perfectly okay with
yourself because love can come and go - and if it goes you wont feel
like most of you is leaving with it. The people who are the quickest to get
over their breakup are those who dont sit on their pity pot confirming
their victim status. Those who don't feel the desperate need to run back
to their exes; and those who instead try to better themselves and fix those
parts of their lifes that they don't like. Don't make the mistake of thinking
that having a partner is the sole purpose of your life, but rather think
of having 'you' happy and healthy the sole purpose.
Great Things about
* No Arguing; No Drama: No matter
how perfect the relationship is everyone argues. But bad
relationships have a way of fostering enormous arguments about the most minute
*Financial Freedom: Your money
- spend it your way!
*You Can Freely Talk to Members of
the Opposite Sex Anytime, Anywhere: Most people find that the minute
they get into a relationship that they are no longer allowed to talk to their
friends of the opposite sex. Being single means that you can talk to or hang
out with whoever you want, whenever you want.
*Be in Love With Yourself: You
are finally free to be your own person and explore yourself without fear
of being judged or shamed or ridiculed. You are now free to do what you want,
when you want , and with whoever you want. You can make brownies at
3 a.m. while listening to your favorite music and dressed in your favorite
baggy sweats. Who cares; you are comfortable with yourself. You can do as
you damned well please, and be your true self. You now have the freedom of
answering only to yourself and not having to consider anyone
*More Room: Enjoy your big 'ol
bed. Sprawl out on the couch. Use the whole bathroom counter for your stuff;
and park in the middle of the garage.
*Get Appreciated by Members of the
Opposite Sex: Yep, that's right. As a partner we sometimes just 'expect'
our mates to do things for us and show very little appreciation when they
do. We feel that they somehow are just supposed to do this! But doing things
for a new man or woman that you meet gets appreciated.
*An Open Market: You can now
experience the excitement of finding the opposite sex attractive and acting
on those feelings. You're free to flirt!
* Revitalize and Revamping Yourself: Open up to new things in life. A lot of people in relationships get 'lazy'.
They stop doing exciting things, they stop learning new stuff, they stop
exploring, and they become complacent and 'oversatisfied'. As if their sole
purpose in life was to get a mate and now that they have reached that goal
they simply stop living. Theres probably a good reason why you find
yourself single right now and its your opportunity to learn more about
yourself and life in general.
*No Need For Answers: The great
thing about being single is not having to worry about your mate questioning
you all the time. All of those restrictions they put on you; having to constantly
compromise and consider someone else; and the endless policing and trust
issues are gone.
A Quick Rundown:
1. Less daily drama to deal
2. Your friends don't feel as shut out
of your life
3. You're free to flirt whenever you
feel like it and with whomever you fancy
4. You gain back a sense of
5. You don't have to shave if you don't
6. Lots more fun at parties and
7. You don't have to take ownership over
another's moods or attitude
8. No nagging
9. You can gain or lose weight without
10. You are free to come and go as you
11. You can control all the
12. More time for you, your life, your
hobbies, your friends, your activities
13. You don't have to deal with another's
quirks and bad or annoying habits
14. Your career can come
15. You have to answer to no
16. No gnawing suspicions to keep you
up at night
17. You can whiz with the bathroom door
18. Another's happiness is not your
19. You can dance with whoever the hell
you want to
20. You can hang with friends of the
opposite sex without somebody getting angry or jealous
21. Who cares if your panties and bra
22. Wear whatever the hell you want without
worrying how you look
23. More minutes on your
24. Don't have to ask
25. Flip through the channels and put
on something you like
26. Shower can wait
27. Sports on TV as much as you
28. No need to buy gifts for Valentines
Day, Sweetest Day, their birthdays, or anniversaries
29. You're free
30. Go ahead and
Article brought to you by Tigress Luv, the Breakup Guru