How to Break Up through a Relationship Breakup Letter
In any relationship, one of the hardest parts is when the couple totally hits rock bottom and decides to break up. But what do you do if it’s too painful to see the person and break up with him or her face to face? You’ve got too much self-respect to do it through text or phone, never mind through friends. God forbid that you even think of doing it through a Facebook status or a Tweet. So, when you’re running out of options, the next best thing would be to create a relationship breakup letter.
When you really think about it, there are actually distinct advantages to making a relationship breakup letter. You will be able to say the things that you need to say without breaking down or getting too emotional. You won’t have to face whatever negative reaction or consequence that you would have to if you were breaking up with the person face to face. You can choose when and where the person will read the breakup letter, and most often than not, you would be able to avoid a huge, ugly breakup scene in public.
When making a relationship breakup letter, the most important thing that you have to keep in mind is to write the content of the letter exactly as you would say your thoughts if the breakup was actually in person. The difference here is that you would be able to take your time and put down the most eloquent and complete thoughts. If you were actually in front of the person, you might have to contend with those awkward silences, or those times when you would be at a loss for words.
If you’re unsure of what to write, you might want to check the Internet for a sample of a relationship breakup letter. Rest assured, there are thousands, if not millions, of breakup letters posted online. You can choose the one that fits your mood or your situation the most. You can even choose what kind of breakup letter you want to write (funny, serious, dramatic, light, etc) and use that as a template for your own relationship breakup letter.
However, if you don’t feel comfortable going online and using other people’s heartaches as your own, you can always call up a close friend and ask them to make you a sample of a breakup letter. They can either draw from their own experiences, or if they know your story, use yours to create the content. Friends can often help you say that things that you’re hesitant to say, or even write about. What’s more, since they are detached from the event, they can often write things in a more clear and concise manner. Having a friend help you create your breakup letter can often result in a better written and constructed letter.
When you finish writing your relationship breakup letter, make sure that you sleep on it before you send it. Don’t send it in the midst of anger or a fight, as you may regret it when you calm down! Make sure that you are 100% positive that you want to breakup before sending that letter, because you won’t be able to take it back.
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