Free Tips on How to Get Your Ex
Free Tips on How to
Get Your Ex Back
How to Win Back Your Exboyfriend or How to Win Back Your Exgirlfriend:
Tips to Help You Stop Your Breakup and Get Back
We offer you
Tips on How to Get Your Ex Back
YOUR EX'S SIDE OF THE BREAKUP
Make the effort to comprehend your ex's perspective.
Take a good, long look at all the things that are happening in his or her
life and try to recognize how the relationship may have not been fulfilling
or advantageous for them.
truly understanding that your ex is not out to hurt you, but rather to find
their own personal peace and happiness, may help you get through this painful
event. Too many people think that the cure to the pain caused by their breakup
is to 'get back together with their ex'. In actuality, the cure to their
grief and their hurt is to understand and accept their ex's choices to dissolve
the relationship and to find forgiveness for their ex for hurting them, and
by learning to recognize their own grief triggers and working through them
on their own.
INDIFFERENCE AND DISINTEREST!
Apathy does a very uncanny thing to our exes. It makes them wonder why we
don't appear to care that they are no longer in our lives. Consequently,
they will begin to feel quite alone, insignificant, and insecure without
this acknowledgement of them, and this creates in them an emotional need
to have you back in their lives, or to regain your love and acceptance once
ELIMINATE THE SAD SACK DEMEANOR
Stop hauling your bitter-sad life story around with you everywhere you go.
Studies find that happy, smiling people are considered far more desirable
to the opposite sex. Think about it - are you drawn to depressed bitter people?
No! And why would your ex want to be around you if you are dragging your
sack of issues with you every single time they see you? By being beautiful
both inside and out and by getting rid of negativity you create a certain
radiance about you that is simply irresistible. Ironically, almost all people
who broke off a relationship said that the underlying cause of the breakup
was simply because the other party was too demanding, depressing, needy,
or miserably unhappy all the time, creating a sense of unease and stress
when they were around them. Their partners no longer brought them
So paint a smile on your face and show them pearly whites! No matter how
wretchedly unhappy you probably feel inside at this sad time in your life
try to put your grief, bitterness, and sadness aside and morph into that
magnetic, radiant person that just emanates optimism and attracts people
to them like moths to a light.
We know that it is hard to be happy when
your whole world is turned upside down without them by your side. Most
likely if your ex initiated the breakup they are handling it better
than you. They know that they could probably win you back if they wanted,
and they are not dealing with the pain of rejection or of abandonment as
you may be. Add to this, they might be in a 'pulling away' mode, which takes
some strategic actions on your side to get them to come back around to wanting
to be near you and not 'away' from you. This is discussed more at Stop Ending
DON'T LOSE CONTROL OF YOURSELF OR YOUR EMOTIONS
Negative emotions run high during a breakup. However, if you display anger,
blame, shaming, or contempt you may just be reminding them of exactly why
they chose to leave the relationship.
Remain neutral, calm and in control of your negative emotions. Display a
true understanding, patience, charm, and sweetness. After all, you want them
to see that there is quite a bit of value in being with
SO DISPLAY THAT YOU HAVE VALUE
Cease all the ugly begging, sobbing, pleading, and blatant hopelessness.
Don't phone them, send them Hallmarks, letters or emails, or any kind of
instant or text message. It will not only make you look unworthy and make
you feel pathetic, it will prove to them that you truly are of absolutely
no value to them. If you show your ex that you have no value without him
or her, your ex will only see that you, yourself, have 'zero' value period. You will only end up making yourself appear more unattractive
in his or her eyes and push them even farther away from you then they already
are. Why validate to them that their decision to end the relationship was
the right one, after all?
Totally, completely and truly love you with all your might, heart, and soul.
Your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend will only love and respect you that
much more if you truly love and respect you.
GROW, ENHANCE, IMPROVE UPON AND THEN MOVE ON
Exercise, change yourself for the better, improve your health, improve your
outlook, improve your mind. Improve your attitude!
Be and look your best!
Then move on with this new you. Make them curious. Make them want to meet
you all over again.
Remember, you ARE single again. So get out there and enjoy being free. There
is a world of living waiting for you so have some
MYSTERY IS CAPTIVATING
Part of the strategy to grow yourself
involves becoming a whole new and better person - one they want to be with
and one you feel good about. Once you have improved on you you want
to captivate them back to you. To keep him or her captivated to you, you
need to keep you hidden, obscure, and unrevealed to
them. You need to keep some part of yourself forbidden territory - so completely
off limits to them that they can only imagine what mysteries abound. People
are mesmerized by a person's enchanting and bewitching
So, don't let the 'new-improved' you
be an open book!
BE TRUE TO YOUR GENDER
Men need to learn to be more masculine and women need to learn to be more
feminine. The more feminine a woman is the more manly a man feels when he
is with her - and the more he will want to be with her. The more masculine
a man is around a woman the more she will feel feminine when around him and
the more she will desire to be with him. Stop trying to match the opposite
sex thinking that you are pleasing them that way and start getting back in
touch with your true identity.
Men, for more help with this read WhyWomenLoveBastards.com and women read ManMagnet.net
Whether you curl up in a ball and watch the world pass by or you get off
your arse and join it, things are going to be exactly the way they are going
to be. So you might as well enjoy life. It has the added benefit of making
your ex stand up and take notice of you again!
DON'T MEDDLE IN THEIR LIFE
It's none of your business and will most likely hurt you - and your chances
of reuniting. Don't ask your ex's family or friends about him or her. Don't
drive by their workplace. Don't give them your unsolicited advice or
Let them go and give them back to themselves. You will be much more attractive
this way, and you will feel much better, too.
DON'T APPEAR BURDENSOME BY LACK OF SELF-RESPECT
As stated before, one's lack of respect in oneself is a very unattractive
quality. Learn to respect yourself and do not hurt yourself by continuously
placing yourself in hurtful situations. The only person you need in your
life to feel good about you is you.
PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE - SO BACK OFF
Although it may have come as a surprise to you when you suddenly found yourself
'single' again, relationships do not crumble overnight. You must learn to
be patient, as regaining your love back is not going to happen overnight,
course, these tips don't work on everybody, and there may
be more to your breakup and the issues surrounding it than
you know. Sometimes getting your ex back takes more than simply
following the above tips! We offered you
tips on how to get an ex back - but remember
that these tips pertain
to most normal breakups, however your breakup
may be unique and for this BETTER
TIPS ARE AVAILABLE AT 'HOW
TO STOP A BREAKUP AND GET AN EX BACK'
IF ALL ELSE FAILS: TIME HEALS
Remember the one who invests more in the relationship is the one who hurts
the most and grieves the longest, but time truly does heal all wounds. As
I always say, "one-hundred years from now it won't matter
These Free Tips
on How to Get Your Ex Back were brought to you courtesy
of Tigress Luv, the Breakup Guru,
author of 'How to Stop a Breakup'.