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How to Cope When Your Boyfriend Has a New Girlfriend / How to Deal With Your Ex-Boyfriend and His New Girlfriend

How to Cope When Your Boyfriend Has a New Girlfriend

How to Deal With Your Ex-Boyfriend and His New Girlfriend

Taken from a member's post at the Lifted Hearts BREAK UP SUPPORT Community:

What does he see in his new girlfriend that they couldn't see in you? Why is he so nice to her while he was such a jerk to you?  Why does he do it for her and not for you? That's the question right? Here comes your answer so listen up... once and for all.

The fact is that the two of you weren't right together. You didn't flow. You didn't mesh. You didn't gel. You didn't blend. You didn't WORK. You and and your ex were broken. You and your ex sucked. You and your ex were toxic. So why does he get along so well with her? In a nutshell, because she isn't you. You and she are different people. Doesn't mean one is better than the other... just different. She just seems to get along with your ex better right now than you two did at the end of your relationship. That's fine. Who gives a shit. There are also men out there that you get along with better than she ever could. It's called human nature ... there is no mystery here.

Since when is your ex's opinion about anything so fuggin important? What he thinks isn't gospel you know. I've told you before and I'll tell you one more time... Your ex's opinion does not define who you are!

My dear, you will find yours. When you least expect it, you're going to run right into your "knight in shining armor". But right now your sights are still set on him and what he thinks. As long as you keep looking back at him, you'll never see what's waiting in front of you.

FACE FORWARD


How to cope when your boyfriend has a new girlfriend,
how to deal with your ex-boyfriend and his new girlfriend.


Remember that the beginning of a relationship is a blindly-romantic, euphoric high. This is before the reality of each other sets in. Before they get to see and witness each other's faults and flaws and quirks and issues. It's a very false time. Give the ex's new relationship (AND NEW GIRLFRIEND) some time and, trust me, the euphoria will wear off and be replaced with reality. Then smile to yourself because she will see the jerk in your ex and he will see that she really isn't all that much either.

For advice on winning him back, or at least making him REGRET losing you, please visit Win My Boyfriend Back.


How to cope when your boyfriend has a new girlfriend,
how to deal with your ex-boyfriend and his new girlfriend.


"Romantic love is a mental illness. But it`s a pleasurable one. It`s a drug.
It distorts reality, and that`s the point of it. It would be impossible to fall in love with someone that you really saw." ~~Fran Lebowitz

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