The Breakup: The Good, The Bad, The
Ugly
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If there's one good thing about a breakup
it's that at least the stress of the relationship goes away, but in the case
of us, we're broke up AND you're still here antagonizing me. I'm taking it
at both ends.
***
I gained a pound. Oops. Not really worried
about it though. I think I gained it only because I ate carrots with cottage
cheese and apple sauce last night. Today I had yogurt and some hot chocolate.
That's it. I really don't have an appetite but I have to work at 4 so I'll
be running around for hours. I need some sort of energy. I've realized there's
one good thing about a breakup. You shrink away with the
pain...
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The only good thing about a "break-up"
or the impending one - utter turmoil I feel emotionally, that is - is that
now, size 4 pants are getting baggy on me.
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Breakups SUCK! And it's quite alright
to be a lil psycho in these kind of situations.... it's the only good thing
about a breakup.
***
Ok... so the only good thing about a
breakup is that all of a sudden some songs have a whole new meaning. It's
crazy. it could be because I am forced to really pay attention to the
lyrics
***
Things will get easier in a little bit
of time.The good thing about a breakup is you will have all of this negativity
about what she did not do in your former relationship. This is great weight
room motivation.
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The good thing about a break up? Good
music.
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The only good thing about a break-up
is that's the only time I write good songs. I can't write for crap when I'm
happy, but when I'm sad the words just happen.
***
One good thing about a break-up is not
having to spend as much – good for the money-saving goal. Also trying
to make more gifts this year. Hand knit hats & scarves for
all!
***
One good thing about a break up is you
have a valid excuse to spend money on yourself. I'm going out into the city
today to wander. It won't be a good idea to sit in my room all day. And since
I'll probably start crying randomly, at least if I'm just walking along crying
in the city, I'll never see the people again. Wandering campus crying would
be awkward.
Over the past month, my life has shattered,
and now it's come crashing down around me. But that's okay, you know? Because
now I get to start over, pick up the pieces, and reform them into a better
picture. And experience has shown me that it's been from the lowest places
in my life that I've found the greatest happiness after getting through it.
And every time I experience something shattering like this, I come out a
smarter, stronger person.
***
The good thing about a breakup is that
you will quickly learn who your good friends are and who your great friends
are.
***
Well, at least I still have my sense
of humor in tact. But that's about all. The good thing about a break up,
is what I like to call "the break up diet." Some people overeat when they
are stressed and/or depressed. Not me. I'm one of the lucky ones. I starve
myself. It's not that I really starve myself, more that I just lose my appetite.
Completely. I've already slipped back into my size 6 jeans. I was in an 8.
Must look on the bright side!
***
The only good thing about a break up
is the 10 lbs you lose in a week.
***
But, the one good thing about a breakup
was that he actually could be irrational and selfish and blame Duo for
everything, because he sure as hell wasn't thinking about ending
things.
***
In my mind the only good thing about
a break up was all the hugs and sorrys’ from your
friends.
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The good thing about breaking up with
the other person, is that you can get them to go back out with you whenever
you want, in most cases.
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The good thing about almost, kinda, pretty
much seeing someone on the side (although, the side of what, really?) is
that it reminds you there are other options, and it diverts your attention,
sort of weens you off your soon-to-be ex.
***
There's only one good thing about breaking
up and that's making up, especially during the holidays.
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The only truly good thing about breaking
up is the music. Whatever pain and heartbreak you might endure, at least
there is an inordinate number of sad, down-on-your-luck, fuck-it-all songs
out there to comfort you in your misery. And if you’re like me, you
spend a substantial amount of time wallowing in it before moving on. What
better way to wallow and embrace the pain than to throw on some lonely sad
bastard shit and wile the night away?
***
Heh well I broke up with my girlfriend
two weeks back.... which means I don't have to pay $300 rent a fortnight
anymore, along with other expenses!!!
***
“I know one good thing about breaking
up,” said the bartender, patting his flat stomach. “And that’s
going back to the gym.”
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The good thing about breaking up is that
you can see what didn't work and what did. Then you can learn what you want
in the next relationship. A bit deep and meaningful but that's what I
think.
***
That's the good thing about breaking
up with someone you crazy about... looking for someone else to be crazy about
and crazy about you
***
The one good thing about breaking up is
getting the chance to post it on the internet. thank-you! for making it
possible
***
Yeah, over the past few weeks I've learned
that if there's one good thing about breaking up, it's that I don't have
to look at Buffalo 66 sitting on the shelf anymore. I hate that
movie.
***
I think that over the last year or so
we lost each other. I was battling issues at work and sinking into a depression.
He was overwhelmed with the amount of business that his own company had.
We settled into a rut. We began to drift apart and lost sight of what was
really important - each other. It's amazing how a break-up can give you such
clarity - how I can now see what's important.
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The good thing about breaking up, is
now you can go out with someone else, who you will most certainly like better
than the girl you broke up with.
***
There's only one good thing about breaking
up and that's devising up...
***
But ya know the good thing about breaking
up is that you find someone else that you cant get enough of.
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The good thing about breaking up is what
you do is legal...I see
it as a free pass to play!!!!
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When someone cute flirts with you, you
don't have to pretend it didn't happen.
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Choosing what to do with your
money/time/home/life/location without having to worry about what the other
person thinks/wants.
***
Not having to answer to anyone, or call
if you're not going to be home right after work, or pick up after yourself
if you don't want to.
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The fabulousness of being able to soak
in a bath with a glass of wine and good book without any interruptions...
let's face it, it's bliss!
***
It is very hard to move on or have "me
time" though with the other person still living with ya.
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Friends with "benefits" can be
good.
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Not having to set the alarm and wake
him up, regardless of how long it takes.... not having to choose his family's
Christmas and birthday gifts........ and finally, being able to use two syllable
words without apologizing for being smart...
***
The best thing about being single....hmmm
there are so many things that are great including watching what you want
to on tv, taking up the whole bed, spending hours lazing in the bath with
a good book and one of my personal favs going where you want when you want
with who you want without having to check or answer to anyone
***
FREEEEDOOOMMMMMM!!!
***
Can eat what ever the heck I want without
hearing "You're not gonna eat that are you?". Yipee !!!!
And sleeping diagonally across my
bed!
***
Being able to cook or not to cook depending
on how I feel at the time.
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Plus not feeling guilty about retail
therapy!!
***
Not having to hide any new clothes or
shoes and having to 'pretend' that they were in the wardrobe all
along! "Had them for years
dear, honest!"
***
I don't have to rush home from work to
start supper. I can stop by a friends house and stay as long as I want without
feeling stressed about what I really need to be doing at home.
I don't have to clean up behind anyone
but myself. And best of
all I don't have to constantantly put the seat down or clean the rim as often.
hee hee
***
Let's see. The only dirty clothes I pick
up are my clothes and my little girls. I control the remote, I control the
computer w/web-cam thank you. I can go on DATING sites, go to San Francisco
or Timbuk 2 for that matter without someone asking me "where've you been"?
I get to make male friends without someone getting jealous.
And not one person telling how to raise
my little girl!
***
Companionship is nice if you want that,
but in my experiences, friends last longer than boys
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Its so nice to be able to lay in bed
of a morning and f@rt really loud, without having to get up and go to the
bathroom to camouflage it.
LOL... or belch in a way
so that the walls shake. Don't have to hide the stinky shoes. or use odor
eaters. Or hide the stiff as a board socks. OHHH oHH wait that's my ex I'm
thinking of.. sorry . LOL
***
Yes, reading in bed, hogging all the
covers, spending as long as you like in the bath, SNORING without guilt,
being able to switch the tv off & read a book without fear of being called
antisocial.... it's all GOOD
And..... putting the rubbish out and
realising that it really isn't rocket science...lol
***
Best thing(s) about being
single:
Being able to come home from a night
out, just as the paper-boy makes his delivery and not having someone ask
where the hell have you been.
Being able to f*rt without having to
blame the dog.
Being able to watch the footie and scream
at the ref without that immortal female question "Why"
Course there are disadvantages too, if
I think of any I'll let you know.
***
I like being responsible for only myself
and my kids. I'm pretty independent, so I like being able to pretty much
go where and when I want to, without reporting back to someone. I like being
able to toss a picnic in the van, wake the kids early and just ride until
we find a suitable picnic spot, and not have to worry about a "schedule"
- at least on the weekends!
And I LOVE being able to read a book in
bed at night.
***
I can look like crap whenever I want,
I can talk to complete strangers, and I only have to cook and do laundry
for myself.
***
I get a pay check now instead of an
allowance.
***
You don't have to worry about what to
wear....just go around in you birthday suit.
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Definitely the t.v. remote, also the
house rarely gets dirty without anyone else around.
***
You can b-r-e-a-t-h-e without worrying
about anything.............ladies and gentleman, I have truly
exhaled.......
***
There is too much BS in a relationship
sometimes, on your own, it's just you and your faults and your habits and
it's your life .... being single have been some of the happiest days of my
life.
***
You can hog all the covers you
want!
***
No bickering over what movie to
rent!
***
I can be as friendly as I want and not
be accused of "flirting".
***
TV remote control all to myself!
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