Break Up Letters
Break Up Letters to Boyfriend
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Break Up Letters to Boyfriend #1
You are such a worthless, lazy, good for nothing
slob. I'm so sick of you that I can barely come home at night. I'm through.
I'm tired of picking up your dirty clothes off of the floor and making you
dinner every night for you to just sit there and contribute nothing.
We used to be a great team but ever since you
lost your job things have only gotten worse and worse. First, you stopped
paying attention to me. Then, you stopped playing with the kids. Now all
you ever do is play video games and watch TV. What happened to the days when
we worked side by side as a team? Don't you miss them? Do you ever miss working
in the garden together? We haven't even had one for three years because I
can't get you to plow it up.
I know that you have been through a hard time
and I'm not trying to be insensitive to that. I just feel like you've given
up. I mean you've had plenty of opportunity to pick yourself back up off
of the ground and get started again. I'm not even talking about a job here.
Yes, it bothers me that you are not working but I wouldn't leave you over
it. I'm leaving because you don't contribute anything anymore and you actually
make my life harder.
Just like yesterday. I came home after working 12 hours. I was exhausted.
I'm not even going to bring up the point that I wouldn't be working 12 hours
if you had a job. But anyway, I came home. The house was a mess. I made dinner,
did two loads of laundry, did the dishes, gave the kids baths and helped
them with their homework. When I finally got to sit down I fell asleep in
the living room chair. THAT'S where I woke up at 3 a.m.
Okay, now let's talk about your night last night.
When I came home, you were playing video games. You ate your dinner in front
of the TV while me and the kids ate in the dining room. You said maybe one
or two words to me the whole night and those were mostly to let me know that
I was blocking your precious view of the game. You never bothered to lift
a finger. You watched me lug that heavy laundry up and down the stairs and
never even got up to help. Then you went to bed and left me laying there.
I can't even remember the last time you kissed
me goodnight let alone the last time we made love. I just can't live like
this anymore. I deserve so much better. I deserve to be loved. The kids deserve
better. They deserve a father who will go out and play ball with them in
the yard. They deserve a role model. I'm sorry, Jim, it's over.
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Break Up Letters to Boyfriend #2
It is time for us to break up because
I can't take your possessive jealousy anymore. You are unable to trust me
despite the fact I have never given you a reason for mistrust. You are
continuously questioning me when I come back home, from work or just a simple
trip to the store.
You go through all my drawers. I do
not know what you expect to find but I deserve some privacy and would never
dream of doing this to you. You know that I care about you but I just cannot
get you to understand that I am not doing anything to make you feel this
You tap into my email listen in on my
phone calls. What are you trying to find? You know I have always been faithful
to you and wanted us to bond. But you are not giving us a chance. Your mistrust
of me has destroyed our relationship and I don't see that you can or will
change. Rather than fighting a losing battle with you I would rather quit
this relationship and break up. I know it will be better for us both after
the break and we can stop torturing each other and move on.
You watch me like a hawk even when we
are together. How can we enjoy a romantic dinner when all you can think of
is if I am looking at some other guy? Why can't you just enjoy our relationship
without suspecting my every move? I take you as you are and have never questioned
your integrity there is just no reason that you cannot do the same for
I need my space and you are just suffocating me with your obsessive behavior.
If you are just unable to trust me then we are through. A relationship is
based on trust and you are unable to give me this. I don't want to discuss
this further because I am tired of explaining my innocence to you. We need
to break up and go our separate ways. We need to end this misery for us
I hope you will be able to understand
and will not get hurt by this but you know deep down that we cannot go on
in this way. We are just hurting each other too much. I know that you do
not want to hurt me and believe that you are doing this because you care
about me but we cannot continue a relationship like this. So let's part as
friends and move on with our lives.
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Break Up Letters to Boyfriend #3
I am fine. THANKS for asking. So i figured it's
probably best not to text you again. Haven't heard from you so figured you
can't now since you're back with Kristin. So thought well i will try here
and hope it doesn't cause you any grief. So i hope you are ok now.
Well didn't mean to cry to you on the phone
again the other day. I can't help it. You get so aggravated with me when
i do. I don't know why.
I understand that you're not done there. I just
don't see why you think that one time with me and its awkward means theres
no hope. We have been thru more hard times then you and Kristin have. And
you two only been together 3 months. I didn't expect it to be the same. I
also didn't expect you to be calling her. Yeah that did hurt...but you know
what can I do? Still i felt for you when you cryed. And i would have done
anything to make you feel better.
All i want to say is that i know it takes time.
A few times or more to be around someone and feel no tension. Alot with me
was I wasnt being myself cause i knew i hurt you and I had it on my mind
so i was quiet and i wanted to hold you closer to me but didn't want you
to pull away or think I wanted sex. I also thought it was nice not saying
anything and just laying there. No words. And i thought you weren't feeling
Anyway beside all that. All I have ever wanted
since we been aprt is a chance to date you. Just once in a while even. I
have never had a chance without Kristin there. Or talking about her or whoever
i am talking to. I want a real date where we talk about our lives and just
start over. might be little different but all those other things will come
back when we are more comfortable with each other and they are things about
us that we cant change so i know they are there. So i do think we can rekindle.
But we both have to have our minds on it.
Here is what I think or feel that you are feeling
right now. Right or wrong so be it. Just letting you know what i think about
when i am missing you. Loving you.
Ok here is Kristin..She came at a good time.
When you had been hurt so much that you felt you couldn't go on. You didn't
plan it but you couldn't turn it away. When someone was there who wanted
you. Looked out for you. Held you. Had not hurt you.
So you take it. Hold onto it and fall in love.
Maybe not IN love. But it feels good and you do care and have strong feeling
for her. You can't turn someone away you love and need. Who has done nothing
to hurt you like you have been hurt in the past so may time. She makes you
laugh. The kids laugh. Makes the kids happy and when you're with her you
forget and you're happy.
And here is me. The girl you loved so much.
Did everything for but she has hurt you. May times over and you don't understand
why or how she could do it. So it is hard for you to believe she really loves
you or be able to trust her again. You say you don't need her. That she can
walk out and you don't feel the need to say" wait, please don't go. I need
you here. I love you" cause so much hurt has happened that that feeling is
no longer there. Even though only a month ago you begged her. But she didn't
come running. But how has that changed that feeling inside of you? Yeah made
you think she didn't love you. But how could it change everything in your
heart for her.
So there is her. And here is me. There is no
way I could win your heart. Nope..Doesnt look good for me.. You already think
you know me. You been with me years and you still hurt and also you know
i am here. Waiting on you.
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